Apparently the black community at large frowns on this grown woman’s decision to ask her man to be her husband and I am so confused. These are the same people asking about the “state of black marriage/relationships” and…
No fucking ma’am.
This is STILL patriarchy.
But hey, lemme know if you’re fulfilled and still together in 10 years.
Why wouldn’t they be fulfilled and happy 10 years down the line? Because she asked him and not vice versa?
Them heffas mad because they know damn well NO nigga would say yes if they asked.
I don’t see anything wrong with this. This is great.
LOVE THIS! DO IT BLACK QUEEN!
Me: Joins tumblr for fun
Me: starts to critically analyze almost every aspect of modern society
Could you imagine getting an apartment with the person you love. Falling asleep beside each other, and waking up to see that cute little dopey smile they make when they first get up. You’d never have a bad start to your day, because they’d be the perfect start.
"If you don’t know what you want, you’ll never find it.
If you don’t know what you deserve, you’ll always settle for less.
You will wander aimlessly, uncomfortably numb in your comfort zone, wondering how life has ended up here.
Life starts now, live, love, laugh and let your light shine!”
~Rob Liano ❤️
Five things I am trying very hard to accept (via aumoe)